Rise to the occasion and stand firm.

Now that you’re a grown man, there are things that seem to be circling back into your Ma fella, let’s talk about something that affects every Zambian man’s well-being. The ability to rise to the occasion when life demands it. No, not that occasion when the flag flies at half mast.

Guest Commentor: Michelo Mukata

I’m talking about the daily challenges that test whether you’re a man of your word or just another soft performer. 

When you tell your family you’ll pay school fees by month-end, don’t go limp at the first sign of financial pressure. A man of his word doesn’t make excuses when the economy gets tough – he finds a way to stand firm in his commitments. 

Your word should be like a reliable morning salute – consistent, dependable and pointing in the right direction. 

Many accounts emphasize that marriage is not a sprint but a marathon that demands endurance. When your wife needs support during difficult times, don’t suffer from commitment issues.

Stand tall through her complaints about neighbours, stay firm during budget talks and keep your composure when she mentions her ex had a bigger… salary (read take-home package).

A strong marriage (or relationship) requires a man who can perform under pressure, not one who becomes weak at the first sign of resistance.

Your friends will test your resolve – “Just one more beer, just one small bet on Manchester United (technically possible, but you’re setting yourself up for disappointment and an empty wallet).” 

But a man with integrity doesn’t bend easily. Stay firm in your principles, even when surrounded by the widest hips and glossiest lips. Especially those.

Your reputation depends on your ability to remain standing when others expect you to fall.

In today’s competitive job market, employers need workers who do not buckle under performance anxiety. Stand on your promise to deliver and sustain the energy to finish strong. When deadlines approach, rise to meet them. Show that you’re not suffering from productivity issues.

Remember, ba guy: whether it’s your wallet, your word or your hustle – stay hard on your commitment coz pa Zed there’s a thin line between boasting na njala and your ability to stand firm when it matters most. There will be many of those occasions in life.