We all go to the same war. Discover what we’re good at, get better at it, apply it somewhere to make enough money that we can save to help our family bury us with dignity. Ok, this opening was dark. Sorry about that.But the point I’m making is that while we’re all pursuing a respectable […]
What If You Don’t Die First?
Men tend to die first. That’s why they’re implored to have a will that determines the aftermath of their demise. This anomaly has us focused so much on how we should plan for our loved ones when we’re gone. Men never consider the alternative. The possibility that it is not us, but our partner, who […]
“It’s Gonna Be A Big Event”
You probably know by now that a man’s biggest milestones rarely announce themselves with trumpets and a man in a white rob descending from the shimmering sky above us. Frankly, that’s the only time it’s gonna be a big event. For everything else, life is a series of occasions that add up to the next […]
Comparing Sick Notes
Sure, there are men among us that simply refuse to give up on Arsenal FC and that’s admirable but there’s something about how we handle pain that seems to be specific to men. The ability to endure sickness in silence is a rising problem. A man will stare into an empty fridge in a house […]
How Well Do You Know Yourself?
We all know a guy at ZESCO, someone in procurement, the husband to the CEO or the only mechanic in Lusaka who knows how to fix a Ferrari. There’s always someone we know for something and it is a mark of the well-connected man to have a powerful contact list in his phone. To be […]
Is Your Life Age Appropriate?
There’s obviously nothing wrong with having a youthful disposition but there’s a time in any man’s life when he is called upon to be age-appropriate ranging from his decisions, dress sense and diet. It begs the question, are you age-appropriate? As a dashing young man about town, you’ve probably had a few wild nights where […]
Zambian Men are Aging like Fine Counterfeit Wine.
Zambian men are aging like fine counterfeit wine.A forty-six year old Zambian man in 2025 is nothing like a year forty-six old man in 1990. We’re expected to be successful earlier in life, while managing the early onset of middle age. Wasn’t it sixty year olds who had grey hair? I started going grey in […]
About Staying In Your Lane.
These new cars, man. They talk to you, park themselves, wake you up when you’re sleepy at the wheel. But the one thing that stands out is the lane assist feature – bringing you back into your lane when the vehicle is moving off its course.Men, with all the love we have for our cars, […]
Boy Child Advocacy Zambia In Yet Another Partnership As It Donates Football Kits
Guest Writer: Davies Sikopo Snr The Boy Child Advocacy Zambia has officially handed over two sets of football jerseys to the Blue Foxes Football Club, a Kwame Nkurumah University League Team of Kabwe, Central Province. The donation, made possible through the generous sponsorship of Pangaea Securities as part of its Partnership initiative with the Boy […]
Being a Traditional Man is An Act of Rebellion
Men will take their lovely family for a meal at a restaurant and won’t fuss about the chicken piece on their plate. A day or two later, at home, see how he becomes ungovernable after getting served with a drumstick. Man is one version in public and another in the comfort of his home. If Charity […]
